PSA: Wandering and autism, it only takes a second

Wandering and autism

If you follow me on Instagram, you know that I went through a difficult moment this weekend. Charlie ran away when we were downtown. He was doing fine, and then he wasn’t. It only took a second for him to take off and cross a street all by himself. I called his name and asked him to stop, but nothing. By the time I caught up to him, he was a few feet away from a very busy intersection. Terrifying. ⁣

We don’t usually go out in busy places for that reason. His wandering scares the heck out of me. A few days have passed, and I feel guilt. I keep thinking I shouldn’t have let go off his hand, even though he was sitting nicely during lunch. I keep thinking I should have taken my flip-flops off to run faster, which didn’t cross my mind in the moment. But I also feel sadness because I wish Charlie understood danger, like Jude does, so we could enjoy these moments like other families, without fear. ⁣

How YOU can help!

PSA: if you see a child running with a mother screaming behind him and struggling to catch up to him, stop the child. I know it can be awkward if they’re just playing, but you could potentially save a life. Better safe than sorry.

Here are more facts from the National Autism Association:

Nearly half of children with autism engage in wandering behavior

  • Increased risks are associated with autism severity
  • More than one third of children with autism who wander/elope are never or rarely able to communicate their name, address, or phone number
  • Half of families report they have never received advice or guidance about elopement from a professional
  • Accidental drowning accounts for 71% of lethal outcomes, followed by traffic injuries at 18%

Other dangers include dehydration; heat stroke; hypothermia; falls; physical restraint; encounters with strangers.

And to parents, look into medical cuffs/bracelets and pins. We have a few.

Spread the word. 

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1 Comment

  • Reply
    Leah Frances
    2019-09-17 at 11:22 PM

    This is good advice. In the middle of the Orlando airport one of my twins sprinted off. I thrust his brother at my husband and ran behind. But at this point he was 100 yards away heading into a crowded area.

    A bystander used her physical presence to stop him. She blocked his path and distracted him with something in her bag so he stopped. She maintained eye contact with me as I jogged up the ramp. They had a pleasant exchange for a few minutes and then he got buckled into his car seat.

    Since then, I’ve been more willing to grab or block a kid eloping. Before I would have been reluctant to put my hands on a stranger’s child. I am still reluctant. But I’m able to balance that against a parent racing to get their child.

    It only takes a second.

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